Couples & Relationship Coaching
I work with couples of all genders and relationship structures who want support navigating intimacy, desire differences, communication, and change without blame, pressure, or shame.
You don’t have to be in crisis to seek support.
Many couples come to coaching because they care deeply about their relationship and want help understanding what’s shifting and how to move forward together.
When desire changes, the conversation matters.
Feel like something between them has changed, but can’t quite name it.
Or who can name it and don’t know how to talk about it without things getting tense.
Couples often come to me when they:
Feel out of sync sexually
Are navigating menopause, midlife, or body changes
Want to improve communication around sex and intimacy
Feel disconnected, distant, or misunderstood
Care deeply about each other but feel stuck
Want guidance without being told who’s “right” or “wrong”
You don’t need a perfect relationship to do this work.
You just need a willingness to be curious together.
This work is for couples who…
Couples coaching offers space to explore what’s happening beneath the surface, including:
Changes in intimacy due to menopause or aging
Difficulty talking about sex without conflict or withdrawal
Feeling rejected, unwanted, or unsure how to reach each other
Navigating transitions, stress, or long-term relationship shifts
Wanting to reconnect without pressure to “fix” things
I don’t take sides.
I support the relationship and the people within it.
Common concerns couples bring into coaching
What Couples Coaching Looks Like
Sessions are designed to:
Create safety for honest conversation
Build understanding around desire and change
Offer education rooted in sexology and real life
Provide tools you can actually use outside of sessions
Joint coaching sessions
Education around desire, arousal, and intimacy
Communication tools to reduce tension and increase clarity
Consent-led, trauma-aware conversations
Space for humor, honesty, and complexity
Our work together may include:
This is not about going back to how things were.
It’s about understanding where you are now and what’s possible moving forward.
Important things to know
This coaching is:
Educational and supportive
Sex-positive and inclusive
Grounded in clinical sexology
Non-judgmental and collaborative
This coaching is not:
Couples therapy
A space to assign blame
Explicit or graphic
About forcing desire or intimacy
No one is pushed.
Nothing is rushed.
Consent and respect are non-negotiable.
Why couples choose to work with me
As a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist and Sex Coach, I bring education, experience, and humanity into this work.
Couples often tell me they appreciate:
The neutrality I bring into the room
The clarity around desire and change
The relief of finally talking about sex without shame
Feeling heard individually and together
This work is about understanding, not fixing.
And about building a shared language around intimacy that actually works for your relationship.
You don’t have to navigate this alone
If you’re both willing to show up with openness even if you don’t have all the answers that’s enough to begin.